So, I have finally, at 4 1/2 months allowed Oscar to have some toys in bed.
For a few weeks now he has had this toy snake in his cot, I place it along the head bit, where his cot bumper goes and so the snakes head stops about half way down his cot.
Since doing this Oscar has been so good in his cot, he was good anyway, but in the morning he used to be a bit whingy, but now he grabs hold of his snake and literally wrestles it. It is the cutest thing!
And when I go into him in the morning he is Literally the smiliest buba ever and my heart sings to see him so happy and cuddling his snake!